...I sat and meditated on the words that John the Baptist said about the One Whom he baptized; "As He grows greater, I must grow less." Therein was the secret of the Christian messsage. As the ego deflates, divinity takes up the abode. Nothing can be occupied by two objects at one and the same time. To decrease is to be less and less occupied with self. That was the day perhaps more than any other that I learned that humility is not something that is directly cultivated; otherwise one becomes proud of his humility. It is a by-product; the more Christ is in the soul, the less the "I" weighs it down. 

-Fulton Sheen, "Treasure in Clay"